“To be able to contain, withstand and hold the aggression of your adolescents who push you away, you have to feel very secure – meaning that you have to feel pretty good about yourself as a parent, that you have given them...
“Any separation, no matter how short the separation, requires a moment of reunion and repair. If you disregard the importance of that reunion and repair, collectively that starts to do great injury to that baby. Every time we have those missteps it is really...